Siblings, as well as many
area musicians, unite to help ailing mom
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Music has always a big part
of life for Van, Bob and Freeman White. The brothers, over the years, have
played in some of NEPA’s best and most popular bands. Their sister, Laura, also
sings, and when the four were growing up, they sometimes sang a cappellea songs
together.
Music runs in the family.
The past three years,
however, have not been easy for that family. Their mother, Carolyn White,
71, was diagnosed with stage-four ovarian cancer in the spring of 2012.
The diagnosis came only about six months after her home was destroyed in the
September of 2011 floods that hit parts of the Wyoming Valley. It also came
only six months after she lost her own mother.
“The house was destroyed, she
lost her mother – our grandmother – and a few months later, she was diagnosed
with cancer,” says her son, Van. “She went through radical surgery, which was
done at Lehigh, and she went through chemo. Initially, we got a clean bill of
health. All of the scans said the cancer was gone. That was around
Christmastime of 2012. It was a big Christmas present. And then a while later,
she was again having some abdominal pain, and the cancer had come back.”
Currently, Carolyn continues
to battle and has resumed chemotherapy. And to help her with her living
expenses during this difficult time, her family is hosting a special benefit
show, “Caring for Carolyn,” which will take place on Sunday, Nov. 30 at the
Kingston VFW. Performing will be Militia, Cool Ride, Mother Nature’s Sons and
Bat Out of Hell. Special musical guests will include Mike Miz, Bret Alexander,
John Shemo and one of Carolyn’s favorite acts, The Chatter.
Van says that though he and
his brothers have performed at hundreds of benefits over the years, all in an
effort to help others, this is the first time they’ve been on the receiving end
of such good intentions.
“I've never done something this close to home,” he says. “To my knowledge, we’ve never had a benefit for someone in my family. And the response, to be honest, was overwhelming. We’ve been involved with the music scene in this area for so long. I started playing out in bands when I was 16 or 17, and I’m 41 now. Everybody wanted to be a part of this. It’s going to be an amazing show.”
“I've never done something this close to home,” he says. “To my knowledge, we’ve never had a benefit for someone in my family. And the response, to be honest, was overwhelming. We’ve been involved with the music scene in this area for so long. I started playing out in bands when I was 16 or 17, and I’m 41 now. Everybody wanted to be a part of this. It’s going to be an amazing show.”
The musical resume of the
White family is impressive. Freeman was a member of Strawberry Jam and has
performed with artists such as Bret Alexander, George Wesley and MiZ. He also
toured with Grateful Dead vocalist Donna Jean Godchaux and is currently a
member of Mother Nature’s Sons. Van was a member of FreeFall, which was once one
of NEPA’s most popular acts, and was also a member of the Meatloaf tribute, Bat
Out Of Hell, and the band ASIZ. He is currently a member of Militia. Bob is the
lead vocalist of Bat Out of Hell and was a member of 3rd Degree. He now also
performs with Cool Ride. Perhaps that’s why rounding up such a solid lineup of
talent to play the benefit wasn’t difficult.
“This is called the ‘Valley
with a Heart,’ and that's what it is,” says Freeman. “We were overwhelmed with
the response from friends and musicians to offer any help needed. I am amazed
and humbled by all the generosity. This area has some amazing musicians, and
every one of them that I talked to offered to help without blinking an eye.
Most people that I spoke to agreed to do it before I finished asking the
question.”
Van says the that event has
also brought healing to the family. He explains that after their mother’s home
was destroyed in the flood of 2011, the family squabbled during the rebuilding
process.
“We all didn’t see eye to eye
on a lot of things,” he says. “It caused a lot of stress and a lot of tension,
and it really put a wedge in the family. But with Mom going through cancer,
we’re putting all of that aside. We’re family. We’re ‘family first.’ This is
for our mother, and we’re call coming back together. It’d drawing us all back
in and it’s creating that family feeling again.”
That, says Van, makes the
event even more special, especially since their mother has always been
supportive of their interest in music.
“We all starting singing
together,” he says. “We’re going to a little piece at the benefit, which is
going to be all of us – just the family. It will be myself, my brother Bobby,
my brother Freeman, and my sister Laurie. When Bat Out Off Hell plays, I’m
playing drums, Freeman is playing keyboards, Bobby is singing and my sister is
also singing. So for the very first time, all of us will be on stage at the
same time, which is big for us.”
Bob, when asked for his
thoughts on the event, puts it simply: “My mother gave us all the music,” he
says. “It's time to give it back.”
In addition to music, the
event will feature raffle prizes and cheer baskets. Sound is being provided by
Rock Street Music, which has been very supportive.
“She’s very excited about it,”
says Van. “As far as us coming together as family and performing together, this
is something she has wanted to see happen for years.”
WHAT: Caring For Carolyn
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 30 from 2-8 p.m.
WHERE: Kingston VFW, 757 Wyoming Ave, Kingston
DONATION: $10
INFO: (570) 287-7511
(Alan K. Stout has covered
rock and pop music in Northeastern Pennsylvania since 1992. His weekly radio
show, “Music On The Menu,” can be heard every Sunday from 9-10 p.m. on 105 The
River. This story also appears in the Nov. 25, 2014 issue of The Weekender.)